From Peter Reynold’s book, “The Dot”, International Dot Day has spring. This is a day where people are encouraged to be creative.
We read the book, then we made pictures inspired by “The Dot”.
This week our Character Strength focus is “Love”.
Love can be defined in four different ways…..
Attachment love: parent for child; child for parent
Compassionate/altruistic love: kindness
Companionate love: friendship, and
Romantic love: spouse/partner/boyfriend/girlfriend
The Giving Tree is one of my favourite books. It contains important messages about love.
Here are some love quotes.
When you think of love – who do you think of?
We all love music and research has shown that listening to and participating in music enhances our wellbeing.
On Monday morning the grade 1-3 students were lucky to participate in a performance by “Zeeko” from Musica Viva. Musica Viva provide high quality musical education for students and it was a pleasure for us to engage in this live, interactive performance.
We learnt about a variety of musical instruments including bottles and a conch shell.
We all enjoyed the performance very much!
At Barwon Heads PS Kindness means
“I do and say things to make others happy”
Some reasons for being kind…….
Being kind feels good. Doing something for someone else really does make us feel good. Make someone smile and you’ll feel better for having done so.
Kindness broadens our perspective and gives us positive emotions. In order to be kind, we have to pay attention to what is happening around us. As we notice more things and help others, we get a glimpse of other ways of looking at things. A broader perspective helps us to be happier and to keep things in context.
Kindness softens our heart. When we look for kind deeds, beauty, and the opportunity for kindness, we’ll find that we are more compassionate and more tolerant. As we practice empathy, it opens our heart to others.
Kindness brightens our world. When we are kind to people, it makes them happy. The more people who experience kindness from us, the more happy people will be in our lives. When those around us are happier, our world becomes a brighter, lighter place to live.
Kindness helps people feel respected and less alone. By recognizing someone’s need for help and acting on it in a compassionate manner, it makes the recipient feel valued. It also makes the giver feel better about themselves and more connected.
Kindness makes people want to be around us. One of the most common responses to kindness is gratitude. People appreciate what we’ve done for them. Our kindness is very attractive, so they want to be around us and actually seek us out.
Kindness bears wonderful fruit. Kindness begets kindness, openness, health and reduces the effects of stress on our bodies and our hearts
Kindness begets kindness. When you are kind to others, the impact of your action doesn’t stop there. There are a couple of sayings, “What goes around comes around”, and ” A simple act of kindness creates an endless ripple.” Many times the recipient of your kindness and others who see or hear about your kindness are inspired to be kinder. The ripples of kindness are truly endless.
Student examples of acts of kindness
Wilfrid Gordon McDonald Partridge
When did you show kindness to someone else?
“I think carefully and make good choices”
Motto: Think before you act.
“Make smart choices,” is a rule that can be easily applied to primary school students. There are many ways to share how it works. Discuss the smart and foolish choices made by characters in a story, famous historical individuals, students in the playground. Before beginning a science experiment or art activity, ask kids to talk about the wisest and silliest decisions that can be made.
Some examples of books wherein the characters display prudence include:
“Can I Join Your Club” shows the main character being rejected by the other animals and making the decision to make his own club where everyone belongs.
“The Ant and the Grasshopper” is a fable wherein the organised ant plans for the Winter while the arrogant and lazy grasshopper makes fun of the ant. The grasshopper regrets his not so prudent decision making later!
Everyone knows the story of “The Boy Who Cried Wolf” and the boy’s unwise decision to trick the villagers more than once. His behaviour also backfires.
Finally, “How to Heal a Broken Wing,” by Bob Graham shows a little boy in a sea of adults making the prudent and kind decision to help a bird lying injured on the pavement.
Jemima wrote: Prudence means….Think before you act and make good choices. If you make a bad choice, at the end of the day think of three good things that happened today.
Matilda wrote: Prudence means….Making good choices and thinking carefully. I choose which path to follow, which line to draw, which balloon to float me and hopefully I choose right.
Can you think of a time when you or the character in a book have shown prudence?
At Barwon Heads PS, having hope is to look forward to the future and believing that good things are going to happen.
Motto: Be positive, especially when others are not.
Hope means that you expect the best in the future, and you work hard to achieve it. You believe that the future is something that you can control.
This is why we associate hope with setting goals. We set personalised smart goals that are:
According to research optimists are:
An activity to activate hope and optimism is to write about things that you are looking forward to in the short term and/or distant future.
What are you looking forward to?
“I forgive people who hurt me and give people a second chance. I put my sadness behind me and move forward”.
Forgiveness means letting go of hard feelings like anger, sadness, or frustration that happen when you or someone else makes a mistake. It’s saying “Thank you” or “That’s okay” when someone apologises and not staying upset about what they did. It’s having patience with yourself and others, and recognising that no one is perfect—everyone makes mistakes. It’s letting go of hurt feelings, and moving ahead, ready to do things. It doesn’t mean that all of a sudden what someone did doesn’t hurt or isn’t wrong. It means that you find it in your heart to give the person another chance.
In many ways Forgiveness is about taking power back by “flipping” the mood/situation as described to us by Martin Heppell. I use the analogy of the sparkle jars. Harbouring hurt or anger as a result of someone hurting your feelings can feel like a whirlwind in your tummy but as soon as you forgive it can lead to a sense of calm like when the sparkles fall to the bottom of the jar.
Little Life Message: The best revenge is to move on and find your happy.
These are Jasmine’s beautiful words about forgiveness……
What are Mindsets?
Mindsets are like beliefs that people have about themselves and their intelligence, talents and personalities. People with a growth mindset understand that their basic intellectual ability can be developed through dedication and hard work. This contrasts with those with a fixed mindset who believe that that they are just given their intelligence which can’t be changed.
Who developed the idea of mindsets?
Psychologist Carol Dweck developed this theory after years of research into achievement and success. She and her team have evidence to prove that teaching a growth mindset creates motivation and productivity.
Importance of understanding theory
When educating students about the growth mindset, it is not enough to simply say to students that they need to have a growth mindset. Research has shown that to understand growth mindset, people need to understand the science and theory behind this concept.
The brain is malleable and can get smarter and stronger. The scientific evidence proves this. Neuroscientists liken the brain to a muscle. Working on challenging things gives your brain the exercise to get stronger and is the best way to grow your brain.
Students need to understand that they can cultivate their mindset and to do this they must know some things about neuroplasticity; the ability of the brain to form and reorganise connections.
How neurons work
The brain is made of cells called neurons. These neurons are connected to thousands of other neurons through networks. When the neurons connect, signals are sent and everything that you do happens because of your neurons connecting. These networks change with certain experiences causing new connections to form or strengthen. People have the power to change how their neurons are wired together by doing things that they never thought that they could do. One way of doing this is to learn challenging things. This strengthens the brain by rewiring it and increasing the person’s intelligence.
Skills needed to cultivate a growth mindset.
Sarah Mckays 8 tips for promoting a growth mindset in kids:
Sarah Mckay PhD blog post
10 Minute Animation in which Carol Dweck explains praise and Growth Mindset
We teach Mindsets under the banner of the Persistence Character Strength.
Can you think of a time when you had a growth mindset?
The Character Strength “Fairness” belongs to the category of Justice. Fairness means giving everyone a fair go and treating others as you would like to be treated. As a teacher, fairness is about giving everyone the opportunity to succeed and going out of your way to ensure that this is happening. For children, fairness is about being empathetic and putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. It is also about being considerate, honest and respectful of others.
This is our house by Michael Rosen, illustrated by Bob Graham is about a boy called George who will not let girls, small people, people with glasses etc play in his cardboard house. The tables are turned and George finds out that it’s more fun to share and include others.
Fairness is one of the most rewarding character strengths to teach students because it is a strength that is all around them. They see it in others and practice it themselves in the playground each day.
Tell us about any incidents of Fairness that you witnessed today.
This website has some tips for parents: http://www.yessafechoices.org/parents/character-education-corner/fairness